Does anyone here DOESN'T think of their future? Does anyone here just passing the day with what they have all the time? No right? Who in the world that is so stupid to do that? Everyone thinks of their future. Everyone wants a better life out there.
From young till today, we will think of our own future. When we were schooling, we think of
what we want to be in the future. When we are in college or university, we think what we will be after graduate. When we work, we think of what we want to achieve in that company. When we are courting, we think of how to makes our lifes better when we get marry. When we retired, we think of how to survive going thru the rest of the life.
See. Nobody want to spend their days not thinking what's going to happen next. For example, you have RM100 for you to spend for the rest of the week until your next pay comes out. And you saw this dress that cost you RM30 and you like it so much. Do you buy it or not? Do you want to spend that RM30 just for the sake of that? Fine, let's say you bought that dress and now you are left RM70. The you pass by a fancy restaurant that you like, do you walk in there and order the food? Yes? Fine, let's say you done that too. And the food there only cost you RM15. Now you are left with RM55. With this RM55, do you think you could go thru the week with that? I don't think so. What if you were bad luck that week and something has gone wrong with your car? A hose in your car is leaking fluid and you need to fix it. Oh well, to fix back that hose only cost you maybe RM40 that's because you know that mechanic likes you so went there and fix it. Now you left RM15. Petrol? Toll? Parking? Food for the rest of the week? Where does that come from?
I've learned alot of lesson from my this recent relationship. I begin to wonder if this girl is serious with me. If she comes and tell me that she got freaked out when I talk to her about our future, I think it's best that we have to go seperate ways. When I was with her, I think about our future, I want to buy house, car, savings...... These things doesn't come EASY! I have to plan all these in order to make it happen. If I don't plan all these things, when the time we want to get marry, where the hell we going to stay? Where the hell I going to the money to make a fancy wedding that she dream of? How the hell I want to send my kids for education? If I don't think of these, then you would have a reason to leave me and find A BETTER OFF GUY!
So what if I do think of those things? Then it means I have my own way to handle things. When I don't buy her that dress doesn't mean I love her less. Think of the other way around, I don't buy it because I think it is not necessary. Futhermore, that's just because her colleague was wearing it and you want it too. Come on la. Be original.
If you think you just want to spend your days with what you have right now, then go ahead. No one will look upon you. I will not look upon you. The boss will not look upon you. And you will never go anywhere in the company if your mindset it like that.
From young till today, we will think of our own future. When we were schooling, we think of
what we want to be in the future. When we are in college or university, we think what we will be after graduate. When we work, we think of what we want to achieve in that company. When we are courting, we think of how to makes our lifes better when we get marry. When we retired, we think of how to survive going thru the rest of the life.See. Nobody want to spend their days not thinking what's going to happen next. For example, you have RM100 for you to spend for the rest of the week until your next pay comes out. And you saw this dress that cost you RM30 and you like it so much. Do you buy it or not? Do you want to spend that RM30 just for the sake of that? Fine, let's say you bought that dress and now you are left RM70. The you pass by a fancy restaurant that you like, do you walk in there and order the food? Yes? Fine, let's say you done that too. And the food there only cost you RM15. Now you are left with RM55. With this RM55, do you think you could go thru the week with that? I don't think so. What if you were bad luck that week and something has gone wrong with your car? A hose in your car is leaking fluid and you need to fix it. Oh well, to fix back that hose only cost you maybe RM40 that's because you know that mechanic likes you so went there and fix it. Now you left RM15. Petrol? Toll? Parking? Food for the rest of the week? Where does that come from?
I've learned alot of lesson from my this recent relationship. I begin to wonder if this girl is serious with me. If she comes and tell me that she got freaked out when I talk to her about our future, I think it's best that we have to go seperate ways. When I was with her, I think about our future, I want to buy house, car, savings...... These things doesn't come EASY! I have to plan all these in order to make it happen. If I don't plan all these things, when the time we want to get marry, where the hell we going to stay? Where the hell I going to the money to make a fancy wedding that she dream of? How the hell I want to send my kids for education? If I don't think of these, then you would have a reason to leave me and find A BETTER OFF GUY!
So what if I do think of those things? Then it means I have my own way to handle things. When I don't buy her that dress doesn't mean I love her less. Think of the other way around, I don't buy it because I think it is not necessary. Futhermore, that's just because her colleague was wearing it and you want it too. Come on la. Be original.
If you think you just want to spend your days with what you have right now, then go ahead. No one will look upon you. I will not look upon you. The boss will not look upon you. And you will never go anywhere in the company if your mindset it like that.
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