Saturday, September 29, 2007

Home Sweet Home

Now after the trip, back to work, back to my life. LOL. How sad is that eh? Anyway, more travelling coming and this time I'll be going to Singapore next week. Duty call. Those who knows me well, they know I have some feelings about that country. What feelings? Hmmm... It's too sensitive to write in this blog here. LOL.

Anyway, yesterday, on my way to lunch, my colleague told me that my circle of family and friends is too small. Hmmm.... that kept me thinking the whole day till today actually. What circles can fit everyone in there? For my past 31 years of life, I've been thru a lot of experience. The good ones and the bad ones. The circle that I have right now, there's only my family in there and some of my close friends. Do you think we could just let anyone into that circle? I will not simply just add someone in there unless they are proven to be a trust worthy person. Ofcourse thru time, there will be someone going in and also going out of the circle. But how do we know that someone who we let them in will not take you for granted? It's hard to tell.

My colleague told me that I should loosen up my security in my circle. LOL. It's like letting in a terrorist into my circle and place a time bomb in there. Maybe I might be too uptight about who is around me but it's not easy to heal a wound that has been cut on the same spot hundreds of times.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Wow; good entry! Well; urm I gotta admit when one is attached, they hardly hang out with the close friends. Don't you think so? IT's like he/she need more time with the partner but sometimes people will mistakenly think that we've changed; we're trying to avoid going out..the list go on! I encountered that too.. Hmmph; since you're single now.. i guess it's not wrong to go out parrrttyyy! Live life fullest mate! cheers