Thursday, October 11, 2007
Will you compare?
If you have a bf........ will you compare what he has done for his ex-gf and what he has done for you? Or better still, what he has given to the ex-gf and also to you? OK. Maybe you will you won't because it's a small item but what if it's a car? What if your bf bought a car for his ex-gf and he did not even buy you a bicycle for you? Would you compare that he loves her more that he love you? How about diamond ring? How about a holiday package to somewhere? Will you compare that? I wish I could get some comment from the girls here and also from the guys. Will you guys compare what she has done for her ex-bf with you?
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If each of us compare current relationships with past relationships or with other people's relationships..I can say that is totally unfair to do so. If wanna compare might as well go for the other party, why need to stick with the current one. If women marry for the sake of money, I can tell her that she can go offer herself to Sultan of Brunei, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs & etc..they have plenty of money, go find them la you good for nothing bitches! This message also goes out to those would be mother-in-laws who has nothing other than $_$ in their freaking eyes, you're also another good for nothing bitch that always ask your good for nothing daughter to marry a rich person. Riches can never buy love, a person's heart, a person's feeling and hell right it cannot buy a person's happiness.
Mike, your underlining statement here is...Can money buy love?
Wah Gary!!! Full of emo..... relax bro.... breath in.... breath out..... I know you know how I know you know how I feel.... Hahahaha.....
comparison always create trouble. why we have to compare with previous/others? totally agreed with gary. if other party so good just ask him/her go for it.
once you take yourself to compare to others means you are not confident with your own. why wanna ask who is better? if he/she thinks you are worst then she/he wont still there with you.
showergal
Interesting entry... =0) Eh; I'll choose Donald Trump ha! ha! He's rich ok! Hey; next time get someone to sing Can't buy me love too!
Gary: You having problem with your future mom-in-law?
Hmmph; don't think people compare in love only~ Lots more ..
-Anon#2-
Anon#2: So what else do you compare?
Belik: I do compare myself with my passed. Cause I always think I can do better in future =p can/not. Sorry-ah; I don't like to compare status among friends/families..
Btw; we don't know each other in real =p
-Anon#2-
We are talking about comparing the relationship of you and your bf's ex-gf.... Not about yourself... Everyone compares themself to upgrade themselves..... but do you compare how your bf treats you to his ex-gf(s).
Of cause not; it doesn't matter how he/she treated the ex. The KEY is how he/she treating the current partner!
Get what I mean!?
-Anon#2-
Bingo! Now you are in the same waves...
=_= so what do I get for coming back to the same wave? =p
-Anon#2-
Errmmmm..... get to go the same shore and sunbath together and watch the sunset under the beach umbrella while enjoying a glass of pinacolada....
Sounds great to me! halo..a glass only?!!?
-Anon#2-
Ok la.... unlimited for you la..
kidding me.. for everyone lah! =p
-Anon#2-
I had the exact problem at first. Comparing prev and current. It actually shows that you're not entirely over your prev. Anger/hatred/love/resentment ... Whatever from your prev relationshp, you should leave it in the past and learn from mistakes and evolve into a better person.
Comparison is a big NO-NO! You'll just increase the strain in the relationship and start generating insecurities. If you're insecure, don't get involved!!! I came very close to this point with AT but he helped me overcome this. :~) Once the past is forgiven, the future slowly shapes to something better.
Gary, bout would-be MILs, people hardly change unless they themselves choose to change. I have come across such species and believe me, till the day they die, they would still be the same regardless with their own husbands/bro/sis/etc. $$$ is not everything. $$$ CAN buy artificial love, but NOT real love or happiness. When we die, we can't bring $$$ along. Those with $$$ in their head, live in castles build in the air. Sad to hear this. :(
Well, I had many countless troubles with would be mother-in-law. Well, that is in the past already, I've ditched the bitch and her good for nothing family and yeah also that piece of shitty bitch which she calls mother too. If you're branded no good for the daughter then you might as well get out of that relationship..there's always a better person out there.
I think I should start writing my own blog ... hmm ...
Gary: have you started your blog?! =D
Anon#2
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