Such a sleepy and slow day. Been cracking my head since this afternoon wondering who is Anon#2. LOL. Anyway, thanks for dropping by to my humble blog. LOL. I'm still wondering do I know you in person?
When I was taking bath this morning (Don't peep huh!) and suddenly this alphabet "W" comes into my mind. Hahahahaha..... Don't know why. I was thinking how did that "W" comes about. Then when you pronounce it, you will realise that it comes from the alphabet "U". When you combines 2 "U" together you will get "W" and the pronouciation for it is "Double U". Hahahahahaha..... Am I correct?
When you are in a relationship, you will think that you know your partner very well. How do you know that you know that person as well as what you think? You may know him/her about what he/she does when you see it. But how do you know when he/she does something that you will never be able to see it? Can you really tell how a person is feeling right now by just looking at his/her face? You really tell what he/she is thinking by just staring at their eyes?
As for me, I'm a kind of person who will keep my mouth shut when someone does something that I don't like. I know it's not good, but my principle is to avoid arguements. But ofcourse, when you are angry at someone, your face could not hide it for long. I would show my long face and just keep quiet even thou someone tries to ask me what is wrong. Alot of girls will get me wrong when they see me like this, they would think I don't love them anymore la.... I hate them la... and whatever shits la..... but will they think what they have done wrong and make me so piss off with them? Will you girls out there think what have you done wrong? OK. So when I spit it out, they would say, "Ahhhhh! It's all your fault, you always show me the long face and I don't like it so I do it more la" WTF!!!!
So do you think you know your spouse or lover very well? Oh, by the way, I'm a scorpion and my signs really describe myself very truely.
a line of life
- Belik
- I believe everyone's life is like a line.... could be crooked, could be straight but it is still a line and there is no u-turn to it, we could only look back and learned the lesson from it
9 comments:
This is the part ur wrong. When you're not happy with something/someone one, voice it out. I never did say I had the perfect relationship. Even it took days before AT would voice out his opinion. U know what??? I really appreciate that.
Perhaps on the spot if the person points it out, we tend to get mad, angry or upset. Its common. We're humans. But how do we handle it if your partner is not happy? Find a workaround, negotiate, talk about it. By going thru rough patches, you may eventually find the real person inside.
Bet none of us want a superficial or masked-face partner. We want someone we can be comfortable with, where we can be our trueself.
Time to find a deeper side of relationship and understanding the meaning of two souls connecting with each other. Thats where love will sustain till the end and beyond.
Theresal, how about if you are with a person who has an ego that is so thick? Whenever I voice out, she will pick up a fight and always say "It's your fault! It's your fault!" After a few times I voice out on the spot, and I get those kindda response, I got feddup....
I agree with Theresal on most parts of her comments. If you're not happy with something, it is better to voice it out and be adult about it and deal with it. If you keep it inside it may kill you and/or the relationship. If you don't tell your partner what you don't like, how is he/she going to know. If he/she does know and keeps doing it just for the sake for annoying..now that's cruel. Then you can give shit to he/she for annoying you.
totally agreed with theresal and gary. if u never voice out nobody knows what u thinking coz they are not u. this is not so call communication. bring it out and discuss. this might brings the situation better. at least u or she will know what to do to make the relation better.
as a life partner, we help each other to walk thru the life. why cant work out together to find the solution instead of keeping quiet and wait for the situation become worst?
anyway, i still think u cant totally forget about her coz now u are predicting all other girls out there is same as her. it is fair?
showergal
Waaa-your title so outstanding!
Agreed with all the comments. We should voice out we're not happy; not only in a relationship.
I believe when there's sure rocking period in a relationship; then it's both job to work things out. hEY; Don't you think it's also a way to spark things out?
-Anon#2-
Again; it takes time to let things go and not every egg is rotten!
-Anon#2-
If the gal picks up a fight even after you voice out your honest opinion, not worth it ler. The gal is obviously immatured.
Life is more than arguing and then making up. If it is, it's an endless cycle of pain, hatred, resentment ... At the end, it kills the first spark of love that brought you both together.
"Don't go looking for love for love will find its way to you. If you want it so bad, it will leave you. When you least expect it, it will stand in front of you."
Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
showergal
Hey how come no answer for your question?!
-Anon#2-
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